Wedding Planning Love Notes- Tips to sustain relationship in your marital life.

Finding the right mate for partner for one could be so frustrating and disappointing for many. If you are one of those that think that getting true love is not just possible, then, you had better have a rethink. True love can be found. In this piece, I am going to give you a few tips on how to get true love. After reading this piece, you will probably have a rethink and start searching for true love in your present relationship.

 Love is a state of the heart and mind – You must understand that it resides in the heart. It is not a thing that relies on things seen. Thus, it is not determined by physical appearance or attributes. The beauty or handsomeness of a person does not create love. On the contrary, loving someone means that you have decided to “love” the person irrespective of how the person looks or thinks. Moreover, there is no doubt that physical appearance can attract you to someone but that is just the initialization process and what you have here may not be love but infatuation. True love grows like a tree and becomes strong when its root has been established. Once these roots have been established, there is a bond between the partners.

 Love settles for complete commitment – If you have problems with your partner now, it may be because of high expectations that are not met. Notwithstanding, your expectations you can still show commitment to one another. Commitment is a sacrifice you make for another. You determine to give your time, energy and resources to the other party irrespective of the surrounding circumstances. Commitment should come from both partners. Complete commitment leads to complete trust for each other.

 Love is sustained by positive communication - Yes, do not miss the point here. You must always communicate with your partner in every sincere way. There are a million and one subjects to be discussed. Your communication should portray your true feelings. Even while you are married, it is better if you talk to your partner about everything except of course things that will separate you. For instance, on issue that should not be discussed is divorce.

 Love binds without crippling - Individuals are distinctively different from another. Thus, they come from different background, have different potentials, have different inspirations and may even have different perceptions about life issues. Once you are in true love, you will respect the distinctiveness of your partner. You must help your partner to fulfill his or her dreams. Remember that your goals are different from one another. So, help your partner to fulfill his or her desires instead of crippling it. In fact, your partner’s potential is really what brings out the innate features from the heart.

 Love thrives on three words – If you are wondering what these words are, let me show you two categories of the words. The first category comprises telling your partner “please”, “I am sorry” and “thank you”. These words are so powerful that we often neglect them in your relationship. These words said at the right time enhance the bond you have for one another. The second category is words that really showcase your inner thoughts and feelings for each other. True love should always be buttressed by these words – “I love you”.

Reassess your relationship today to ensure that True Love still abides. As you plan for your wedding today, these tips will be invaluable to you to sustain your relationship.